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DECISIONS - RIGHT/WRONG ?

DECISIONS - RIGHT / WRONG ??
Psychology tells us that there are actual stages of any grief that we may go through. They are
*  denial
*  anger
*  bargaining
*  depression
*  acceptance


And we go through these SAME stages when we come to terms with anything negative in our lives. We need to acknowledge and accept that we may be at any one of these stages in order for us to move on and make the desired changes in our lives. Just don't allow them to become excuses to derail your success.
You may be very surprised to know that these are the very same obstacles you may encounter to making any kind of progress, be they - business/personal and they are universal. I see them over and over again and the most shocking thing about it is that..... to the people who are "stuck" these obstacles are invisible and imperceptible.
It's not wonder then that you can't find your way through.......BUT...I do hope this little write-up is going to encourage you to CHANGE, starting today.
I am going to help you realise
*  that it is frustration that will stop you dead in your tracks
*  that there are fundamental forces that are outside of our control but which dictate the terms we 
     make decisions with
*  and then I will show you how a "simple decision " can launch your success into the stratosphere.

The more you procrastinate.......you create an "obstacle" that prevents you USING THE IDEA 
FOR YOUR SUCCESS.
Now to understand what a real obstacle is. Its like a huge mountain .....the top of which is unsurmountable in your eyes. It also prevents you from seeing what lies beyond.
ALL THE 'WHAT IFS'  AND 'IF ONLYS' ARE LIKE THE MOUNTAIN ....WHICH PREVENTS YOU FROM SEEING THE SUCCESS YOU WANT.
And the saddest part is that this is only confusing us further making us imagine that we are "doing something" but the reality is that it is pushing us and our desired success into the neither neither land.
The real way to tackle the problem is not to create that mountain in the first place............and jump right in and take that decision.
Now when you first laid your eyes on my book ...you thought....I want to get it for myself...that would be just great.
And yes you are right.....it is great.....it was great for me....but when does it become great for you.....                           ONLY WHEN YOU TAKE THE DECISION TO BUY...AND THIS TIME I AM CERTAIN YOU WILL.


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