Problems in a marriage..... being no different from all other problems.......may be traced back to a lack of knowledge of the workings of your mind and the interrelationship of the conscious and sub-conscious minds.
You need to have the knowledge of how your sub-conscious mind works and that whatever your conscious mind thinks (right or wrong) your sub-conscious mind will bring into your world. So begin now to impress your sub-conscious mind with the qualities and characteristics you want in your partner. Have a keen desire to give the best that is in you of co-operation, devotion and love. Think good of the other and you are actually thinking good about yourself.
Hateful and resentful thoughts are like mental poison. When you think ill of another all you end up doing is thinking ill of yourself for
you are the only thinker in your universe
and your thoughts are creative.
What you think and feel about the other, you are bringing to pass in your own experience. This is the psychological meaning of the Golden Rule. As you want others to think of you ......... think you about them in the same manner.
To cheat, rob or defraud another brings lack, loss and limitation to yourself for your sub-conscious mind records your inner motivations, thoughts and feelings. When these are negative .......trouble will come to you in countless ways. Remember to remember........what you do to the other ...you are doing to yourself.
The good you do, the kindness and goodness you offer, the love you send forth will all come back to you multiplied in many ways.
Wish for the other what you wish for yourself. This is the key to harmonious human relations. Love is the answer to getting along with others.
In conclusion -------- love is understanding and respecting the divinity of the other.